Choosing the Right Independent School

When it comes to your child’s education, few decisions are more important than choosing the right independent school. With so many options, how do you find the best fit for your child’s academic, social, and personal development?

This blog will discuss how to make an informed decision when choosing an independent school, what questions to ask, and how to make a confident decision.

Why Choose an Independent School?

Independent schools (also known as private schools) offer a wealth of opportunities not always available in the state sector. Benefits include:

• Smaller class sizes

• Tailored teaching approaches

• Strong academic performance

• Rich extracurricular offerings

• Exceptional facilities

• Individualised pastoral care

In addition to their nurturing environment, independent schools emphasise the development of the whole child – academically, emotionally, and socially.

Key Factors to Consider

1. Academic Excellence and Curriculum

• Does the school follow a traditional or progressive curriculum?

• Are there strong results in core subjects like Maths, English, and Sciences?

• What support is available for gifted children or those with learning differences?

2. Pastoral Care and Wellbeing

A school’s ability to support your child emotionally is just as important as academics.

• How is mental health and wellbeing supported?

• Are there robust anti-bullying policies?

• What systems are in place for pupil mentoring and guidance?

3. Facilities and Extracurricular Activities

Does the school offer arts, music, drama, and sports?

• Visit the school to see facilities first-hand

• Ask about clubs, leadership programmes, and enrichment opportunities

• Consider the balance between academic work and extracurricular

4. Class Sizes and Teaching Quality

Smaller classes mean more individual attention.

• What’s the student-to-teacher ratio?

• How experienced and qualified are the staff?

• Is there continuity and stability among academic staff?

5. Ethos and Values

Every school has its own culture.

• Does it align with your family’s values and expectations?

• Is there an emphasis on discipline, creativity, or involvement in the community?

6. School Fees 

Be clear on what’s included in the fees and whether bursaries or scholarships are available.

• Are there hidden costs (uniforms, trips, lunches)?

• What’s the withdrawal policy?

• Is there a clear bursary or scholarship application process?

Questions to Ask During a School Visit

• What does a typical day look like?

• How are new students supported?

• How does the school communicate with parents?

Making the Final Decision

• Trust your instinct. Can you imagine your child being happy here?

• Compare shortlists. Make pros and cons lists for each school.

• Talk to current parents and students. Get real, unfiltered feedback.

Ready to Explore Independent School Options?

Choosing the right independent school is a big step — and the best way to find the right fit is to explore your options. Visit different schools, ask plenty of questions, and picture your child thriving in their environment.

Independent schools come in many shapes and sizes, each with its own strengths, ethos, and opportunities. At Holmwood House, for example, we place curiosity at the heart of learning. Our vision is to inspire a lifelong love of discovery and to nurture confident, resilient, and reflective young people who are ready for an ever-changing world. With small class sizes, vibrant learning spaces, and strong pastoral care, we help each child uncover their unique talents and develop the character to match.

Wherever your journey takes you, seeing a school in action is essential. At Holmwood, we invite you to visit during an Open Event or book a personal tour so you can experience our approach first-hand.
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What age should I start looking at independent schools?
Ideally, at least a year in advance of intended entry. Early planning increases options, especially for competitive schools.

How do I find an independent school in my area?
There are a number of guides that list and review independent schools such as Muddy Stilettos Best Schools Reviews and SchoolGuide.co.uk

Are independent schools worth the cost?
For many families, the benefits of tailored education, extracurricular opportunities, and strong well rounded individuals outweigh the costs.  

Can my child join mid-year?
Yes, many schools offer in year admissions or have mid-year intake opportunities depending on availability.

For more information about Holmwood House’s admission policy and to book a please click here to go to our Admissions pages. our next Whole School Open Morning is on Friday 26th September 2025, click here to learn more and to sign up.